Dating Tips

Tips to Avoid Dating Scammers

2date4love is committed to protecting your privacy. Unfortunately, scammers, or people posing to be genuine about dating who actually have ulterior motives, can negatively affect any website. We advise you to be cautious about who you connect and share personal information with so your experience as a 2date4love member can be the best it can be. Please review the following tips to help you steer clear of scammers on our site.

Avoid connecting with members who immediately ask you to email their personal email accounts as opposed to messaging through the 2date4love site
Do not reply to messages or emails regarding a lottery or sweepstakes wining, a loan, money transfer or inheritance
Take the following steps if you’ve already given personal information out to someone you think could be a potential scammer (including your full name, address, bank account information, credit card information, etc.):

-Contact your bank and stop any payments

-Contact your credit card company if there are fraudulent charges

-File a police report

Be cautious of members who are overtly complementary, act as if they are already on an intimate level with you, or seemingly tell you what you want to hear
Do not accept checks from anyone or agree to deposit checks
Do not agree to loan another member money

Please partner with us to help prevent scammers from affecting the user experience on 2date4love. If you believe any members on are scammers, please contact info@2date4love.com immediately. We will do our best to address the issue and help prevent fraudulent members from interfering with your ability to find lasting love.

General Dating Tips

Safety is first; be cautious, always tell someone where you are going and who you are suppose to meet.
Meet for coffee or tea to make sure you’d like to spend more time together.
Keep chivalry alive, let him open the door!
Leave your cell phone on vibrate or off: be present, the quality of your consciousness in the moment is what shapes the future.
Dress nice, you only have one chance to make a good first impression.
Limit your alcohol consumption.
Pick something you both have in common in your profile and make a point to do that together.
Laugh, keep things light, smile!

Dating Safety Tips

2date4love is dedicated to helping you find lasting love and companionship. We work hard to find the matches that you are most compatible with. We trust that you will make the best choices possible when it comes to meeting your matches and giving out your private information. But we are also committed to providing you with the guidance and support you may need to ensure your safety as a member.

Trust your instincts and use your best judgment.

2date4love routinely monitors all account activity and investigates all complaints filed by users. However, we do not conduct criminal background checks when users register for an account. As with any social or personal interaction, remember that it is always possible for a user to misrepresent him/herself. Determining the honesty of a match is each individual member’s responsibility and neither the Company nor the Website is liable for the misrepresentation of any user. Don’t ignore your instincts and always remember that you have complete control of who you want to interact with, and who you give your personal information to as a member of 2date4love.com. If you speak with someone you meet on 2date4love via email or on the phone and they say something that makes you suspicious or uncomfortable, consider ending the conversation and/or relationship immediately. If you meet someone for a date and you feel uncomfortable, leave.

In addition, be cautious of the following common red flags when you’re interacting with a stranger. Be on the lookout for someone who:

Immediately asks to email or chat on an outside emailing or messaging service
Claims to live in the United States but is currently living, working or traveling outside the country
States that your meeting was “destined to be” or “fate” during your first introduction
Asks for money, goods, or any type of financial assistance
Requests for the relationship to move faster than you are willing
Asks you to assist with personal transactions (depositing funds, shipping products, etc.)
Asks you questions that are inappropriate or make you feel uncomfortable
Asks for your home or work address as an excuse to send you flowers or other gifts
Tells stories that aren’t consistent or seem created
Doesn’t give you straight forward answers to your questions
Encourages you to compromise your principles or beliefs
Wants to get close to you immediately

If someone you meet on 2date4love.com does any of the above activities, or does anything else that makes you suspicious or uncomfortable, please contact us immediately.

NEVER Share Financial Information or Detailed Personal Information

2date4love is not responsible for any personal or financial information you share with other users. However, we do advise that you never transfer money to another user and immediately stop all communication with anyone who asks for you for any financial or detailed personal information. We also advise that you never share the following information:

•Credit card number or any bank information

•Your Social Security Number, mother's maiden name, or other private personal or family-related information that could be used against you

Protect Your Privacy and Account

If you access your account from a public or shared computer, be sure that others can’t view or record your login or profile information.

Carefully Choose Who You Share Your Personal Information With

As a member of 2date4love, we caution you to never reveal your personal identity to other users. Don’t include your last name, email address, home address, telephone number, place of work or any other identifying personal information in your profile, dashboard, quick notes, chats, emails, or personal messages. If you do choose to start a call another user via phone use your phone’s privacy features, such as blocking.

Be Cautious of Clicking on URL Links

We understand that URL links can be shared by matches through emails and chats. But we caution you to use your best judgment before clicking on any URL link that you are not familiar with. You are responsible and liable for any URL link you click on to access other Internet sites.

First Date Safety

If you meet someone on 2date4love.com and want to take your relationship to the next level by meeting in person, it can be thrilling and excited. But don’t let your excitement get the best of you. You must still exercise caution when meeting your match on the first date. We recommend taking the following precautions when meeting a match in person:

Choose the time of your date wisely. Avoid meeting late at night, instead opt to meet during the day for lunch or coffee
Meet in a public place where there lots of people around
If you do choose to drink alcohol on your first date, limit your alcohol consumption
Take your own transportation on your date and don’t allow your date to pick you up at your home
Tell at least one friend or family member about your date and be sure they are “on call” in the case that you need to contact them
Be sure you have your cell phone with you on your date and make sure it’s fully charged
Be careful not to leave any personal belongings, such as your purse or wallet, behind when you use the restroom
Don’t go home with your match on your first meeting, even if you feel completely at ease with how the date is going

Report Problems or Concerns Immediately

2date4love takes user problems, complaints and concern extremely seriously. If you have any problems or concerns about a particular match, contact us so that appropriate steps can be taken to keep our website safe and secure.